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Plan a conversation

Four quick questions. You'll get opening lines, what to say if it heats up, and a graceful way out.

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These are conversation ideas, not therapy or professional advice. If a relationship involves threats, abuse, or fear for your safety, start here instead.

1. What's the situation?

A holiday or family gatheringA one-on-one conversationTexting or a group chatReconnecting after a silenceWe live together

2. Who is it?

A parentA brother or sisterMy partner or spouseMy adult childA friendAn in-law

3. What do you want most?

Just for us to be okayTo understand them betterTo set a limit on politicsTo repair things after a fightTo actually change their mind

4. How have these talks gone lately?

Calm, mostlyTenseExplosiveWe're not really speaking

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Kitchen Table Truce is an educational communication tool, not therapy or crisis care. If a relationship involves threats, abuse, or fear for your safety, start here instead.

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